When Life Hits Us Hard, God Hugs Us Tighter


Have you noticed every time the book of James is delved into, tragedy, hurt and pain come roaring in like a lion? Should we be surprised? The enemy is roaming the earth seeking whom he may devour, and what better time than when we are side-swiped with a tragedy to tempt us to turn away from God, the One who made us, knows our hearts, and loves us most.

Several years ago, my husband's men's Bible study group studied James in depth. Many hearts endured heavy pain and suffering during that time. Now, as our pastor is preaching through the book of James, trials and tragedy seem to be magnified. The enemy is roaring at our church family with much pain and sorrow. Just when we settle into the heart of the Word, seeking to understand truth in times of suffering, the enemy cranks it up a notch, sometimes several notches, placing more pain and suffering onto our already heavy hearts.

Spiritual warfare is real. The battle for our minds is intense. But, we belong to Christ and will not be shaken in our faith. Jesus is our Rock, our strong tower and our source of strength.

This morning, our church family's heart shattered over the deaths of four precious family members lost in a tragic house fire: a dad and a mom (both strong Believers and leaders), a bubbly little girl who made you smile every time she bounced into a room, and a precious, adopted 10-month old baby boy. We also deeply hurt for the two siblings, ages 12 and 16, who escaped the flames and a mother-in-law who is in the Augusta Burn Center.

How do we even begin to process this horrible event? What do you say to the family members and friends? How do we cope?

In my quiet time this morning, the focus verse was Be still and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth (Psalm 46:10 NIV).

As I continue to mull over the writer's words, I believe God is already, in this very moment, comforting and holding our broken hearts in His gentle, but mighty hands, and He is catching each and every tear falling from our eyes. I also believe we're being called to be still and know who God is, and to remember He is a good Father in ALL things. This is what needs to be foremost on our minds to battle the darts of doubt and fear the enemy may throw at us.

I quoted in my last post, God is attracted to the brokenhearted. (AnnVoskamp) If there's ever a moment to run into the arms of Jesus, it's when we experience the unimaginable, the unbelievable weightiest of heartaches. When we draw near to Him, He draws even nearer to us, cradling us in His loving arms like a tender-hearted daddy comforts his child.

How do we still our shattered hearts?

With the Word. Psalm 46 is a great place to camp out during any time of trouble to focus on Who God is:

God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (vs.1 ESV).

Because God is our refuge and strength...

Therefore we will not fear though the earth gives way, though the mountains be moved into the heart of the sea, though its waters roar and foam, though the mountains tremble at its swelling. (vs. 2-3)

The weight of grief can feel like the earth is giving way under our feet, that our sorrow is more than we can bear, like we are drowning in the roaring foam of the sea. But, our God is here holding us up and giving us strength, courage and grace in the midst of it all.

As we still our broken hearts, may these words of our heavenly Father bring comfort, peace, and strength:

"You are My servant, I have chosen you and not cast you off"; 
fear not, for I am with you; be not dismayed, for I am your God;
 I will strengthen you. I will help you, 
I will uphold you with my righteous right hand.
For I, the LORD your God, hold your right hand; it is I who say to you, 
"Fear not, I am the one who helps you"
(Isaiah 40:10, 13 ESV, emphasis mine).

With a broken heart, I cling to Christ.

My Pleasure,
Melanie





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  1. This is so precious! Thanks so much! ♡♡

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    1. I just wanted to help people begin processing a very difficult situation putting our sweet Jesus at the forefront. Thank you for reading and commenting. I hope it helped you. Your family is continuously in our prayers and thoughts. Much love and tight hugs! ~Melanie

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  2. There are times in our life we feel we just can't go on. We need to be reminded and to accept that God is always there. He will hold us and give us peace.

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    1. Thank you, Jann. He is always, always with us. Thank you for reading and commenting. And again, welcome to the FB group of Bible study writers. Blessings! ~ Melanie

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  3. Melanie, Oh my goodness, I'm praying for those children and all who loved this family. Thanks for sharing and reminding us that life is short, God is our comfort and strength and to count our blessings.

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    1. Thank you, Becky. This has been a huge shock for all of us. Our church family gathered this evening to draw strength from the Lord and from each other, and to spend time in prayer. It was a very beautiful sight and a privilege to be a part of the Body being the Body. Life is but a brief moment and we need to love hard, live with urgency, and be Jesus to everyone. Thank you for reading and for your prayers. ~Melanie

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  4. Beautiful. So many tragic events. I look forward to the day we will be with HIm. no more tears, pain or sorrow. Meanwhile, we claim His promises. Thank you for this reminder of our loving God.

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    1. I look forward to the same, Cherrilynn. Thank you for reading and for commenting. You are such a blessing. ~Melanie

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  5. Thank you, Melanie, for this reminder of God's love for us - especially in those times of crisis and tragedy. So well written. Thank you!

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    1. Tough week, but God is so good in it all. Watching Him work through this devastating tragedy has been so beautiful and amazing. Tomorrow we will be celebrating the brief lives of strong and courageous Believers who leave behind quite a legacy of faith. Prayers needed as we move forward in trusting and drawing ever nearer to the One who knows us best and loves us most. Thank you for reading and commenting. Blessings, ~Melanie

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  6. Oh wow. Praying for your church family today and for the survivors of this tragedy. May God continue to be your refuge and strength as you walk through the process of grief and healing.

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    1. Thank you, Leigh. Tough week, but God is proving Himself faithful and near to all. Your prayers are greatly appreciated. Blessings, ~Melanie

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